Earnest money is one of the most misunderstood parts of making an offer. Here's what it is, what's actually at risk, how contingency periods protect you, and what sellers are watching for in Washington.
Earnest money is a good-faith deposit you make when your offer is accepted. It signals to the seller that you're serious enough to put real money on the table. In Washington State, earnest money goes into an escrow account — typically held by the title and escrow company — not into the seller's pocket. The money stays there until closing, at which point it's applied toward your down payment and closing costs. It is not an additional cost on top of your down payment. Think of it as your down payment arriving early. The key thing most buyers get wrong: they think earnest money is just a formality or a small show of good faith. In competitive Washington markets, it's a meaningful signal. A $3,000 earnest money deposit on a $600K offer looks thin. A $12,000 deposit on the same offer tells the seller you're confident and financially positioned.
In Washington, earnest money is typically 1–3% of the purchase price, but what's 'typical' varies significantly by market. In Seattle, Bellevue, and Kirkland — especially in multiple-offer situations — 2–3% is common and sometimes higher. In less competitive markets like Spokane, Tacoma outer suburbs, and more rural areas, 1–2% is often sufficient. The difference between a 1% and 3% deposit on a $550K home is $5,500 vs $16,500. That's a real number to have liquid before making an offer. You don't need to put up more than you're comfortable potentially losing in a worst-case scenario. But going too low in a competitive market can cost you the home entirely — a seller who gets two otherwise equal offers will almost always prefer the one with stronger earnest money.
This is where most buyers need the most clarity. Your earnest money is protected as long as you're operating within your contingency periods — and as soon as those contingencies expire, your exposure increases dramatically. Washington's standard purchase and sale agreement typically includes several contingencies. The inspection contingency gives you a window (often 10 business days) to have the home professionally inspected and to either accept the condition, negotiate repairs or price adjustments, or walk away. If you exercise this right during the contingency window, your earnest money comes back to you. The financing contingency protects you if your loan falls through despite acting in good faith with your lender. If the bank says no and you've met all lender requirements honestly, you can exit with your earnest money. Timelines here are typically 21–30 days. The appraisal contingency protects you if the home appraises below your offer price and you can't negotiate a solution with the seller. You can walk away and get your money back. Title review is a shorter window — usually around 5 days — to review the title report for any issues like liens, easements, or title defects.
The scenario where you lose your earnest money is specific: you remove your contingencies (or your contingency periods expire without you exercising them), and then you decide not to proceed. At that point, the seller has a legal basis to claim your earnest money as liquidated damages — compensation for taking their home off the market while you were under contract. In practice, this looks like: you waive your inspection contingency to compete in a multiple-offer situation, then later discover a major issue and try to back out. Or your financing contingency expires, your loan hasn't closed yet, and you get cold feet. Or you make a financial change mid-transaction — open a credit card, switch jobs — your loan falls through, but the lender can argue you didn't act in good faith, which weakens your protection. The cleaner your contingencies and the more carefully you manage your timeline, the safer your earnest money is. Removing contingencies is sometimes necessary to compete in Seattle or Eastside markets — but it should be a deliberate, informed decision, not something you do just to match a competing offer.
Understanding what the seller sees when they review your earnest money deposit helps you make better decisions. A seller's primary concern with earnest money is this: if you back out for a reason that isn't protected by a contingency, will they actually be made whole for the time they lost? A higher deposit is more reassuring to a seller than a low one, but it's not just about the dollar amount. Sellers and their agents also look at the structure. Are contingencies reasonable and standard? Is the financing contingency period appropriate for the loan type? Is the buyer waiving anything — and if so, does that suggest confidence or naivety? In Washington, earnest money disputes go through the escrow company, not directly between buyer and seller. If there's a dispute about who gets the funds after a deal falls apart, both parties have to agree to release — or go to mediation. This protects you from a seller simply pocketing the money without cause, but it also means resolution can take time if there's a genuine disagreement.
A few things buyers get wrong about earnest money in Washington. First: earnest money is not your down payment. It's a piece of your down payment paid early. If you're putting down $55,000 on a $550K home (10% down) and your earnest money is $11,000, you'll bring $44,000 more to closing — not $55,000. Second: you don't lose your earnest money just because you change your mind during an active contingency period. That's exactly what contingencies are for. Third: the amount of earnest money does not directly increase your offer price — a seller evaluates the net proceeds from your offer, which means your offer price matters far more than your earnest money amount. Earnest money is a risk signal and a good-faith signal, not a bidding lever. Finally: if you're using gift funds for part of your down payment, make sure you're clear with your lender about sourcing. Earnest money coming from a gift can create documentation requirements at closing. The closing cost calculator can help you map out the full cash picture — what arrives at escrow, what you bring to closing, and what the final number looks like.
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